Big Springs PTA

Bullying Is a Big Deal 

Bullying is a big problem nation wide. It can make kids feel hurt, scared, sick, lonely, embarrassed and sad. Bullies might hit, kick, or push to hurt people, or use words to call names, threaten, tease, or scare them. A bully might say mean things about someone, grab a kid's stuff, make fun of someone, or leave a kid out of the group on purpose. Some bullies threaten people or try to make them do things they don't want to do.

Bullying is a big problem that affects lots of kids. Being bullied can make kids feel really bad. The stress of dealing with bullies can make kids feel physically ill. Children may not want to go outside to play or go to school if they are being bullied. It's hard for children to keep their mind on schoolwork when they are worried about how to deal with a bully.

Why Do Bullies Act That Way?

Some bullies are looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. Most bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important. When they pick on someone else, it can make them feel big and powerful.

Some bullies come from families where everyone is angry and shouting all the time. They may think that being angry, calling names, and pushing people around is a normal way to act. Some bullies are copying what they've seen someone else do. Some have been bullied themselves.

Sometimes bullies know that what they are doing or saying hurts other people. But other bullies may not really know how hurtful their actions can be. Most bullies don't understand or care about the feelings of others.

Bullies often pick on someone they think they can have power over. They might pick on kids who get upset easily or who have trouble sticking up for themselves. Getting a big reaction out of someone can make bullies feel like they have the power they want. Sometimes bullies pick on someone who is smarter than they are or different from them in some way. Sometimes bullies just pick on a kid for no reason at all.

What do we do at BSE to Prevent Bullying? 

BSE has a zero tolerance policy on bullying. We have implemented a Reporting System for students. Students can choose to report anonymously. They also have several places to write their report: the counselor’s office, classroom, front office, and library. When teachers are aware of the bullying they can  better manage the situation. Each grade level has new positive rules in their classrooms to help decrease the amount of bullying. There is also a specific discipline strategy for each grade level relating to specific acts of bullying. 

What can Parents do to Prevent Bullying?

Parents can regularly talk to their children about bullying. Discuss with them what constitutes as bullying and help them become aware that they do not have the right to be bullied. Encourage your child to stand up for him or herself and to notify an adult near by when a bullying situation is occurs. It is important to note that a bullying situation should be reported even if you are not the person being bullied. If your child does not feel comfortable notifying an adult at school, please call his or her teacher, the counselor, or the principals. We want everyone at BSE to feel safe!